Riddle me this: How is it that hours of conversations DO NOT necessarily equate to fondness? I spent what is possibly more than 24 hours in deep conversation (i hope) with her, only to be met by icy one-liners when I tried to jump-start another conversation the following day?
In an attempt to follow my spectrum-led urge to research for an articulation of what I was feeling at the moment, I Googled “interpreting mixed signals” (yes, I actually went there), and got even MORE CONFUSION on top of already existing confusion.
It’s either that:
- Mixed signals may not be about you and are most likely due to some repressed issues of the other person
- Mixed signals are most definitely about you.
So it’s basically up to you, the recipient of Mixed Signals, to gather information and rationalize why this is happening to you. And because I get crumbs of context from her every so often, I am failing at understanding why I am at the receiving end of her mixed signals. Because who even knows what’s happening, right?
So once again, I reiterate to myself, my current cardinal rule: Take mixed signals as a no.
Other entries:
Catching feelings in the middle of chaos
Some people’s innate ability to fire electric signals from nowhere direct to someone’s soul